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  “Okay, then maybe when it gets cooler? We must help with Naina’s wedding preparations, beta. She lives in New York, but the wedding is in New Orleans. That badmaash has a long list of things she wants done.” Mumma laughed thinking about our family’s favorite brat aka badmaash, Naina, as she cut slices of apple and put them in my and Dad’s plates.

  Maybe New Orleans wasn’t such a bad idea after all. “Mumma.”

  “Ya, beta.” She looked at me.

  “With everything going on at home, I guess I didn’t mention it…”

  “What, beta?”

  “Remember the Annual Women’s Conference in NOLA I told you about?”

  “The one in autumn of next year? What about it?”

  “The board accepted my proposal for No Excuse—the core theme of the three-day event. They invited me to be the local point-person in New Orleans. I can actually live in New Orleans for a few months next year while we put our conference together.”

  Mumma lit up with pride. “This is perfect. Let’s go this summer. You can do some work, and I will take a few months off from my hospital, and travel with you. It’ll be fun. We can help Masi. And then we can go back next year for the conference and Naina’s wedding.”

  “Are you sure you can leave your patients?”

  “No one is more important than you, beta.” Mumma cupped my face. “And I need to save my sister, too.”

  “What’s wrong with Masi?”

  “Nothing yet, but once her in-laws show up, she will turn into a chimney.”

  “Meaning?”

  “Remember when we visited them for Naina’s medical school graduation—the more her mother-in-law bragged about your masi’s $2 million home and her son’s career as the leading cardiologist of NOLA, the more my sister cringed and smoked.”

  “Oh, yes. And when Masi bought her new house and we went all for the housewarming, her mother-in-law insisted Masi and Naina not enter the kitchen or do any religious rituals if they were on their period.”

  Mumma burst out laughing. “Of course, I remember. Your masi got so tired of her tyrannical mom-in-law that she maintained she was always having her period because of menopause and didn’t enter the kitchen at all during their visit. She would sit in her huge bathtub and smoke like a diva.”

  We both laughed, thinking about Masi.

  Masi and Naina were thrilled that my work would bring both Mumma and me to New Orleans. “I am taking you to Marie Laveau’s House of Voodoo when you visit this time,” Naina insisted in the video chat. “I am going to put a hex on that fucking Dev.” The two dimples, one on each side of her cheek, became deeper, as her eyes twinkled with determination.

  My heart uncurled a little more. I was grateful for Naina. Even though she didn’t know the harrowing details of my marital relationship with Dev, she was firmly on my side. Her larger-than-life personality and protectiveness beyond all rationality were reminders of the good in my life. How easily she could say whatever was in her heart, even though she was a year younger than me.

  * * *

  Two weeks after the board accepted my proposal to host the conference in NOLA, Mumma and I were sitting in our patio, getting ready to drink our morning tea. It was hot and Mumma was fanning herself. But she insisted that we didn’t pull the temporary roof we normally used for summer days. I switched on the desert cooler.

  Mumma said, “Thank you.” She took a deep breath. “What does the theme No Excuse represent, Ahana?”

  “You know my organization is bringing together world leaders, advocates, activists, feminists, nonprofits, corporations supportive of women’s safety and rights at one conference to fight violence against women? No Excuse, my brainchild, is the core theme of the three-day event. No excuse for rapes, policing, or any kind of violence against women.”

  “Oh, I see.” She didn’t probe further. A few minutes later, she sighed, “Promise, you’ll believe in sunrise again.”

  “Whaaaat?” I rubbed my eyes, pretending the morning sun and scorching temperatures were hurting them. But it was a ruse to pretend I didn’t understand Mumma’s advice. I stretched my arms over my head and let out a yawn.

  “Promise me, Ahana. That you won’t just give up on love. You are only thirty-three, beta. You have your whole life ahead of you.”

  “Where is all this coming from?” I poured tea into the cups and looked at the high iron fence surrounding the patio. It was covered with creepers. The front of the house had high, cemented boundary walls. No one from the outside could see inside our home. I was safe from Dev here. Two days earlier, he had shown up at my office car park and made a scene.

  Mumma asked the gardener to water the morning glory and zinnia pots. She turned to her tea and stirred it. “Can’t a mother worry?”

  “Yes, she can. But my mumma doesn’t worry so early in the day.” I gave her a kiss on the cheek.

  She hugged me tightly. “Let go of the things that do not serve you, Ahana.”

  I noticed my mother was addressing me as “Ahana” as opposed to “beta.” It confused me.

  “Sure thing, Yogini Mom.” I bowed. Athena came running to me and I played with her.

  Mumma brought her eyebrows together. She spoke in a determined voice. “I won’t be around forever. I want you to promise me that you will consciously harbor thoughts that bring joy to your life.” She gently ran her hands over my ring finger, which was now empty.

  “So now I am a negative and depressed woman?” I pulled my hand away.

  “No one is saying that. But you have never bothered to matter in your own life.”

  I tried to interject but Mumma raised her voice. “Dev was an unfortunate chapter. I am sorry we didn’t see it sooner. But you can’t let a bad marriage stop you from living your life fully. If I hadn’t stepped in, you probably wouldn’t have even left him, Ahana.”

  Mumma was different today. She was a big believer in learning from experience. She was a professional woman who was excellent at her job, and she had never quite mastered the grace in the kitchen that characterizes women who always work at home. There were little burn scars on her hands and arms from cooking. But she was proud of the scars. “Burn and learn,” was her mantra. It was more Dad who would try to talk sense to me.

  I quietly got up from the coffee table in our patio and asked our housekeeper, Lakshmi, to bring me my yoga mat. Lakshmi replied, “Wokay, didi,” in a heavy South Indian accent. She loved to call me didi, even though I wasn’t her older sister.

  “I am serious, Ahana.” Mumma stood up.

  “I know you are. That’s why I need to breathe so I don’t stress out. I don’t want to be reminded what a fool I have been.” I put Athena down.

  As soon as Lakshmi brought the mat, I laid it out and got into a headstand. Some people turn to wine, others to cigarettes, and a few to pot. I have always turned to yoga to find peace. Being upside down with my feet straight up toward the sky and heart over my head, I felt I could deal with the moment. Athena tried to lick my face but Lakshmi picked her up. “No disturbing Ahana didi, wokay?”

  Mumma’s tone changed. “I am not trying to hurt you, Ahana.”

  “I know.”

  “You will open yourself to the idea of a partner and love, Ahana. Promise me.” Mumma started to leave as it was getting hot outdoors.

  “I promise.” I closed my eyes.

  Little did I know that my mother, who’d taught me everything in life, would not teach me one thing: to learn to live without her. And that was the day that, for me, time began all over again.

  - 2 -

  When I joined Freedom Movement as a women’s rights advocate, I didn’t need to travel much. For the most part, I had a non-demanding 9-5 desk job where I didn’t need to encounter people at work. On occasions, I was expected to mingle with the New Delhi socialites and help raise money, which I did successfully. Classic case of secret introvert—hiding inside an extroverted shell that is required to do her job well enough. But with my promotion to head o
f communications and fundraising, a leadership position which I initially resisted, things changed. As a high-powered official, my work was to build stakeholder and donor relations, raise funds for the organization, manage all the marketing, events, public relations and corporate communications for the nonprofit, and overlook all the internal communications aspect. I was new at all of this and hadn’t excelled yet.

  I had left home early that morning because one of our rural sister organizations wanted us to showcase their work at the conference in New Orleans; they represented female workers in India who were scared to use unisex public restrooms because of the rise in sexual assault cases in these spaces. So they had invited me to their office for a site visit.

  I was two hours away from the Indian capital, stuck in a tiny, hot car in the month of June, when I got a call from Dad, “Your mumma is in the intensive care unit.”

  I couldn’t believe him. How could Mumma be fighting for her life when her morning was full of action verbs—she had done an hour of yoga and drank her green juice. She had rearranged her closet. She wrote a list for our New Orleans trip.

  Dad went on to share the details. “She passed out while she was in the shower. I called the ambulance. I don’t think she has much time.” Dad sounded robotic.

  I thought of the right things to say and ask. But I couldn’t. Mumma had been different today. She had scolded me for not living my life. She hated the summer heat, but she had chosen to sit in the patio, instead of the sunroom with the air conditioner on, and drink tea. She had taken the day off from her hospital, very unlike her to abandon her patients, because she felt she hadn’t been able to see some of her close friends. “Life is so unpredictable, beta. I don’t want to have any regrets.” What did she mean by any of it?

  * * *

  I remember every detail. When I got to the hospital, several of my parents’ friends were waiting in the lobby. Had it not been for the strong “hospital smell,” you could have confused the place for a five-star hotel: the amenities, posh clothes, the crowd, the gift store, and the restaurants.

  I tried to avoid them, but many aunties formed a group and hugged me tight. “Nothing will happen, Ahana. We are here for you.” I didn’t blink or cry as they stroked my hair. This was the hospital where my mother worked. This was the space where she saved lives. The hospital aimed to bring India the highest standards of medical care along with clinical research, education, and training.

  I politely excused myself and went to the washroom. There was no food in my stomach, yet I felt nauseated. After throwing up bile and retching for a few minutes, I splashed water on my face. I wiped myself with my dupatta—the long scarf over my salwar kameez covering my big chest since I was in rural parts of New Delhi earlier that day and didn’t want to draw any attention to myself—and bought a lemonade from the cafeteria to rehydrate myself.

  My phone rang: Masi calling from New Orleans. “Naina just reached NOLA from New York. We are on our way to Delhi, beta. Don’t let anything happen to your mother.”

  I got to Mumma’s room and stood at the threshold for a few moments. This can’t be happening. Normally, Mumma’s face glowed, but I could barely see her features since she was hooked onto a ventilator. Mumma, the person who was our lifeline, needed help breathing. Wake up, Mumma.

  My feet didn’t want to move, but I slowly walked inside Mumma’s room. Dad was sitting next to her in a chair; he looked lifeless.

  “Can I get you anything?” I rubbed his shoulders. He didn’t respond, just stared at Mumma.

  I ran my eyes over her: Mumma in the hospital with tubes and machines attached to her. Despite being a doctor’s daughter, I didn’t recognize many items of medical equipment. A rough blanket was placed on her body. I wanted to cover her toes. Mumma often complained about her feet getting cold. Was she cold now? Can you feel anything? Monitors around her beeping. Needles and pipes poking through her once enviable skin. She looked like a frail, pale shadow of her former self. I couldn’t see Mumma like this. I started dry heaving again.

  Suddenly, one of the monitors began to beep and distracted me. The nurse pressed a call button and spoke with urgency. It didn’t sound good. “What’s happening?” I touched her arm. The nurse ignored me, saying, “Everyone leave the room,” and ushered us to the bench outside Mumma’s room. Two doctors and three nurses flooded in. After screaming, “Wait outside,” they closed the door. I saw through the glass window that Mumma was having difficulty breathing. I started to shake. Mumma’s youngest sister, whom Naina and I called Chutney, hugged me.

  Dr. Murty, Mumma’s colleague and chief of cardiology, stepped out of the room after a few minutes. He turned to Dad, Chutney, and me, “The leaks through her heart valves have flooded her lungs.”

  Mumma’s heart failed us all.

  “Will Mumma be okay? Can we see her?” I asked with my eyes flooded with tears. The noise from the heart monitor affirmed she was still alive, with its consistent, rhythmic beeps.

  “Even if she survives, she’ll become a vegetable.” Dr. Murty patted my shoulder.

  My heart sank. In that instance, I knew Mumma wouldn’t survive. She’d often said, “Dignity and independence are important to me. The day I must depend on anyone, physically or financially, that’ll be the end of it.”

  I pleaded with Dr. Murty, “Can you keep her alive until Masi and Naina arrive? Please? Just a little bit longer?”

  Even before he could respond, the nurses called out to Dr. Murty. Too many people moved rapidly inside Mumma’s room; it didn’t look good. I panicked. I peered through the windows again; they were trying to revive Mumma. They were doing some procedure. Dr. Murty attempted chest compressions a few times. Finally, I saw him remove the surgical mask from his face and shake his head. He said something to the head nurse—I couldn’t read his lips. I looked at the heart monitor; Mumma had flat-lined. The head nurse pulled a white sheet over Mumma’s face. My body sank to the floor. I had seen darkness before in my marriage with Dev, but it was nothing compared to what I felt in that moment. My life felt over without my mother in it.

  Dr. Murty stepped out of the room and removed his gloves, “I am so sorry. We tried our best.”

  I sat still.

  “When did she pass away?” Chutney asked.

  “Time of death: 7:17 p.m.”

  Dad saw me, but he didn’t see me. He said nothing; just cried.

  * * *

  Time vanished. Grief came in waves—in some instances, I was calm and got all the paperwork in order; in others, I felt completely overwhelmed. Bills. Death certificate. Nurses paying their condolences as Mumma was their boss. Notifying friends and family.

  At one point, I begged the guy on guard duty to let me into the morgue. He asked for five hundred rupees as a bribe. It was cold inside unlike the dry, sweltering Delhi streets. The morgue had an eerie vibe. He handed me a mask. His instructions were crisp, “Not more than ten minutes, OK? I am doing you a favor by letting you inside. Use the sanitizer before you leave.”

  I covered my face with the mask. He pulled out the drawer in which Mumma’s body was kept. She looked so peaceful; it made me angry. How could she be OK? How could she leave us without any notice? With her gone, I was lost. I touched Mumma’s body. I poked her gently, hoping she would sit up. When she didn’t respond, I lay on the floor in a fetal position. I wailed silently and grabbed my chest. The guy asked me to leave.

  I was alive but felt dead. Life wasn’t supposed to happen this way. Mumma was my best friend. I wanted to run away from everything, especially the aunties. “So what if your Mumma is gone? Think of me as your mom,” so many said as I stepped outside the morgue. “Did you take a picture of your mother in the morgue?” Mumma’s thrice-divorced bridge friend asked as she massaged my neck. I was so angry that I couldn’t think of any responses. “Poor, motherless child,” another aunty quipped as she adjusted her Burberry handbag and rubbed my shoulders. “If Dev was still around, he could have supported you. We all need a man
. Everything is all on you. Tsk. Tsk.”

  Dev could have supported me? When we were married, and attended social gatherings, Dev touching his collarbones was a secret signal that he wanted me right then. No matter the occasion—birthdays, housewarming, or funerals. There were times he would insist I meet him in a secluded corner or the host’s bedroom. I wasn’t allowed to make conscious decisions to look like less of what I felt Dev would want to see.

  I shut down. I was physically in New Delhi, but I wasn’t there. I was an only child, that too a daughter, in the city of Delhi. “A woman can’t perform last rites,” many mentioned in passing when they came home to pay their respects. One of the aunties, while covering her pixie haircut with a designer, white dupatta, whispered to me, “Your Mumma’s soul will not be at peace if you put her body on a pyre. Hindu customs demand that a man must cremate for the soul to get reincarnated. If Dev…” She went on to say more insensitive things, but I walked away.

  I put my tears on hold until Naina reached New Delhi.

  - 3 -

  It was 10 a.m. when a hand shook me. “Ahana, wake up.” It was Naina, clad in a kurta—the pink-colored, loose, and collarless shirt that Mumma had gifted her a couple of years ago—and denim capris. She ran her short fingers, each knuckle adorned with a ring, through my hair. She slowly got up from my bed and opened the curtains.

  I squinted as the sun stared at me. Somehow, I was in my bedroom. I had no recollection of how I got there or why I had slept in a pair of cotton salwar kameez. I had a picture frame, with Mumma’s photo in it, resting on my pillow. My pillow was damp. Athena was not in her bed. I rubbed my eyes and stared at Naina.